🔥 How Badly Do You Want It? The Ass-Kicking You Didn’t Know You Needed

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: How badly do I want the life I say I dream about?

In this episode of The Confidence Chronicles, I’m delivering the honest truth about what it really takes to achieve your vision. Whether it’s building a thriving business, becoming a thought leader, or creating the life of your dreams, the reality is that most people won’t get there. Why? Because they’re not backing their dreams with the action required to make them happen.

This isn’t your average pep talk—it’s a wake-up call, the loving (but firm) ass-kicking you didn’t know you needed. If you’re ready to stop playing small, it’s time to match your actions to your words and move like your vision depends on it—because it does.


In This Episode, We’ll Explore:

  • Why most people don’t achieve their dreams: The brutal truth about the gap between ambition and action.
  • The danger of mismatched energy: How small actions undermine big dreams.
  • Finding your “why”: Why clarity around your purpose is the ultimate fuel for your journey.
  • Proximity is power: The importance of surrounding yourself with people who push you to level up.
  • Extraordinary results require extraordinary actions: The real cost of playing it safe.

Key Takeaways

  • Words aren’t enough: The life you want won’t come knocking—you have to work for it relentlessly.
  • Find your fire: Motivation fades; purpose-driven passion is what keeps you going.
  • Invest in yourself: Surround yourself with people who have the results you want and learn from them.
  • Sacrifice isn’t optional: Success demands risk, effort, and unwavering commitment.
  • Your vision depends on you: You can’t delegate or delay the work needed to build the life you want.

Time Stamps

  • [0:00] Introduction: How badly do you really want it?
  • [5:15] The harsh truth about unachieved dreams.
  • [10:35] The importance of aligning your actions with your vision.
  • [15:20] Tapping into your “why” and the power of clarity.
  • [20:45] The role of mentorship and proximity in success.
  • [25:30] Extraordinary results require extraordinary action.

Listen Now

🎧 Tune into Becoming Magnetic on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.


Let’s Connect

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