I’ve met and worked with so many women over the years who have spent their entire lives being worried about what other people think of them.
And for a very long time, I was one of them.
There’s nothing wrong when you care what other people think of you because it’s what most human beings do and it’s perfectly normal.
But the big problem is when you allow their opinions to penetrate your mind and heart and eventually stop you from getting the life you truly deserve.
I’ve been there and I know how it feels. It’s like no matter what I did, it wasn’t good enough for them, resulting in me feeling like I’m not a good enough person.
Until one day, I had no more energy left to pretend and I finally realized I wasn’t being true to myself.
I then decided not to chase my tail anymore trying to impress other people.
And one of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that saying YES to please others was a big NO to myself.
So if I was able to rebuild the confidence in me, you can do it too sis. Allow me and this audiobook to be the instruments of that big change that you’ve been looking for your entire life.
Topics discussed and where to find them:
01:32 Being a Loud Sneezer
05:34 Bringing Out Inner Demons by Other People’s Insecurities and Projections
06:01 Not Being a Good Enough Person
06:50 The Sneezes were just the Tip of the Iceberg
07:18 Finally… I Realized I wasn’t Being True to Myself
07:50 Saying Yes to Please Others was a Big No to Myself
08:05 Why Do Women Think They Lack Confidence?
08:31 Getting a Variety of Answers, Leading to One Common Denominator
08:51 The Disturbing Stats of the Dove Global Beauty and Confidence Report
09:54 Commiting Mistakes and Showing Weaknesses
10:12 Social Media Cannot Make You Lack Confidence
10:48 Taking Your Response Ability Back
11:02 Overcoming the Social Media Blame Game
11:21 The Problem of Allowing Others’ Opinion About You
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