You can’t lead the life you want while you’re still being the version of you who’s scared to claim it.
In this episode, I’m walking you through one of the most powerful identity shifts you’ll ever make: creating your Alter Shego — the future version of you who already has everything you want.
This isn’t fake it till you make it.
This isn’t affirmations and fluffy bullshit.
This is about embodying the woman you’re becoming — right now.
I share my personal story of going from a broken, traumatized woman in foster care to becoming The Queen of Confidence — not because I was born confident, but because I built her. I made her up. And you can too.
We dive deep into:
- Why you need to BE before you DO before you HAVE
How Beyoncé uses Sasha Fierce (and how you can apply the same method)
The psychology of enclothed cognition — why what you wear changes your confidence and performance
How I used my Alter Shego to walk onto the TEDx stage terrified and still crush it
The exact questions to ask yourself to build your future self identity
Why your kids, your bank account, and your relationships are showing you where you haven’t done the work
How to stop confusing your current limited self with your unlimited future self
This is a sneak peek into Chapter 7 of my book Becoming Magnetic, and it’s one of the most transformational exercises I teach.
If you’re ready to stop playing small, stop second-guessing yourself, and start showing up as the woman who already has what you want — this episode is your blueprint.
The future version of you is out there living her life.
She’s confident. She’s magnetic. She’s unapologetic.
And she’s waiting for you to step into her.
It’s not can you do this. It’s will you.
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The Queen’s Table
High-level mentorship for women ready to build authority, visibility, and legacy.
https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/
The Next Level
For women ready to grow their confidence, audience, and income.
https://thequeenofconfidence.com/nextlevel/
📚 MY BOOKS
Becoming Magnetic — Chapter 7 is all about creating your Alter Shego
Confidence Feels Like Sh*t
https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/
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Drop a comment and tell me: Who is your Alter Shego?