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This is why you don’t have what you want

My love, I want you to really listen to me here. If you’re wondering why you’re not getting what you want, most of the time the answer is simple. You’re not doing the work. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again and again, but if you aren’t willing to go into the depths of yourself and really look at who you are – the shadow self, the mean girl that lives inside of you, then you’ll never be able to get the results you desire.

I know that if you listened to what I’m saying and did the work, you would start to feel better, you would change your attitude, you would change your mind. It won’t happen immediately, it’s going to take some time, but it will happen.

Get a piece of paper, a piece of toilet paper, a Kmart receipt – whatever it is that you can write on and start to write down those thoughts that are in your head. Have a look at them and you will start to recognise the patterns that are stopping you. You can be your worst enemy or your best friend, all the work starts with you.

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