Christmas Boundaries

Can you believe it? Few days until Christmas. 

It’s a different holiday season this year, no matter where you are in the world, I think we’ve all been impacted by the pandemic and what’s going on. 

Here in Australia, it’s pretty hectic because things are opening up.

Everybody’s going to be hanging out, shopping and doing all the things but for us this year, I feel like the more this goes down, the more introverted I feel. 

I can’t believe I’m saying that. If you have been listening to me, you know I’m not an introvert. 

I love people, I’ve never referred to myself as one. 

I wanted to do this podcast because I don’t know what your holiday season will look like, but here’s what I do know, we allow our boundaries to be broken. 

This Christmas time is going to be a great time for you to test your boundaries with family, food and everything else. 

Sista, setting boundaries is not easy to do. It feels uncomfortable. But you got this. 

You have every right to choose the kind of experience you want to have this holiday season.

Topics discussed and where to find them: 

00:42 First year of podcast in 2018 

02:21 I feel like the more this goes down, the more introverted I feel.   

03:33 Boundaries are not a preference. Boundary is when you do that, I’ll do this. 

06:18 What would you love to do? How would you love to end this year? How would you love to spend your holiday season?  

08:44 There are difficult conversations that need to be had 

10:28 The goal here is for you to have some boundaries around the holiday season, the goal is for you to be okay for you to get what you need.  

12:34 If people don’t like the boundaries, you’re setting, those are probably the people who you need to set boundaries for

14:22 I want to feel supported. I want to feel like I’m energized with who I’m around. I want to feel like I’m doing things that energize me. I want to feel inflow

18:21 Talk to the people that you love, make the decisions that you want to make this year. 

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LINKS:

Previous episode mentioned: 

How to not go cray cray this holiday season

Confidently Dealing with Conflict

Finding your courageous voice – with Fleasy Malay

Be Kind Say No 

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